Always......giving your very best!

In the past year, I've had the precious opportunity to reunite for  a couple of hours/days with some of my really good ol' friends from the past years. It's always sheer bliss getting together with dear friends that I haven't seen in years, months, or even weeks- at that, and be able to chat about anything and everything that is going on in each other's lives. If you are a female, you know exactly what I'm talking about because, we, as women just LOVE to do this sorta thing that truly bonds us together! There's nothing like catching up on life, family, laughter and reminiscing of the good/bad ol' times together. Definitely fun times! Unfortunately, it's always a sad feeling when the time comes to embrace each other to hug and say our good byes and part into our separate lives again. This experience made me think of the relationships we develop with those we come across at work, social gatherings, church, and even those within our family. Some we feel comfortable to share our hearts with and others we sadly don't make the effort or time for. But, what I've realized, is that the best kind of relationships I've developed are with are those in which I've given it my all and the best of who I am. Genuinely opening myself up in caring for them, listening and sharing with, giving, helping, laughing, praying, and even shedding a tear or two with them. It's come clear to me that it's simply meaningless to give or help without a heart of love. Although, I may believe in the saying that goes something like "...people come into your life for a reason and for a season..", I must remember that the best kind of good-byes/relationships are those that are lived with no regrets by always giving the best of me.

"Wherever you go, go with all your heart."

Hey there!

After reading many of my friends blogs, I've been deeply inspired to start my own! Countless times their words have made me smile, laugh, offered encouragement, spiritual, intellectual, and even health and beauty advice. But, most importantly have greatly influenced me. So, I hope that this little mind of mine will do the same in sharing my day- to- day experiences and thoughts of life to those of you who decide to read. You may not always agree with my jibber jabber, but just know that it is all in uber fun and upright intentions!

"Life is a journey, not a destination."

— Ralph Waldo Emerson

So, the above quote came to mind as I was jogging through Central Park the other night. I am so loving life right now! I really can't help, but smile...BIG. Life (as it stands now) is awesome! Don't you just love when that happens?!?!? When all things (personal, work, and relationships) seem to be filled with love, peace, joy, happiness and contentment, it's simply Ah. mazing! I can't help but to soak it all up and enjoy it to the max! And, I better! Because, just as with all circumstances in life, what follows a high, consequently is a low. That's just, well...... life! Hmmm, a low? Although it sounds bad, it really isn't when truly considered. I've come to realize that it is in disappointments, troubles, anger, and sadness when I am mostly being polished and prepared to be used in significant ways and transforming into a better person, in all. For one, it is nearly impossible for me to understand my family, friends, and/or Co-workers unless I can identify with their experiences. Therefore, if I don't experience different trials and sorrows, how can I fully offer my genuine heartfelt sympathy, understanding, and/or sound advice? Most importantly, it's during my pain that I am being led to genuine surrender and obedience; and when I'm able to really listen to God and receive all that He wants for me. Essentially, it is in brokenness that opens each of us to receive divine blessings, whether it be prepare us to become better people and/or submitting fully to God's will for our lives. Whatever the case may be, I'm by no means stating that I am looking forward for a tune-up (my low), but I can say that when my "low" arrives, I will try to remain positive in the perfecting (becoming mature and complete) that is being done of myself and not be stubborn by holding on to certain goals and things my deceitful heart wants, but will give up on my vision of a good life and be open to God's picture of "the best". Because, really, His best for me will always be more than my little mind can ever fathom!

I want to leave you with some of my "lost in wonder" times of that evening, so here you go.....

• Gazing at the luminous city lights of the NYC skyline reflecting upon the reservoir water in Central Park. Breathtaking! 
• The sound of the horses shoes trotting along the evening park path. Surprisingly peaceful.
• The cool almost Spring-y breeze brushing through my face - Oh Spring! Hurry up and come, please!
• The dog, with its long wavy flappy ears, running ever so quickly and smoothly over the grassy hills playing catch with it's owner - So, precious! 
• Walking pass the stunning 5th avenue windows filled with bright bold Spring colors and fashion. Haute and Classy! 
• Grapefruit and almonds (addicting) for dinner. Nom..nom.. nom. 
• Long conversation over the phone with my momma...simply priceless.